Week 5 - Fitzpatrick - Adolescence

For week five we read Chapter 8 in our LifeSmart text, Adolescence. In the text we discussed what adolescence is and when it starts, which is normally at the menarche for female or first ejaculation for male (186-187), The physical development of the human body, including puberty and the sudden re-emergence of a growth spurt (189), body image during  and eating disorders during physical development, Cognitive Development, including Piaget, Erikson, Marcia, and Hills’ theories pertaining to the development of the adolescent brain, Social development and the roles of family and peers, sexual identity, and mental health issues such as suicide, substance abuse and stress.
            Although I understand Piaget’s premise for believing in his four-stage theory of cognitive development, I still have a hard time grasping the concept that the formal operational stage is the final stage to of full cognitive development. While I do agree that at around the age of 11, children do begin to think abstractly, begin questioning and reasoning, and begin to think more scientifically (191), I cannot say that I agree with the idea that by simply displaying these characteristics it is safe to acknowledge the brain as fully developed. Rather, I would consider the display of these factors as a cognitive enlightenment. What I mean by this is I see Piaget’s fourth stage not as an ending of development, but rather the beginning of true cognitive development; when the brain has fully physically developed the means necessary to intake and process information obtained through the social environment, allowing that person the opportunity to adequately develop their own internal sense of self or a true identity. With that said, I must agree with Erikson’s theory above all others mentioned. Erikson mentions adolescence as a time of identity versus identity confusion (194). He does not say that the brain is fully developed but rather developed enough to take what is learned from the outside world and begin to understand your own place within it. Going back to Chapter 2, if you observe Erikson’s theory (32), you notice that adolescence if the time when environmental influences expand from the person’s internal clique to the external crowd that is society and will continue to be the driving external factor for much of the remaining life.
            Much of the information read in the chapter was very informational, but difficult to read, having a child in the house who is on the onset of this stage of development. As a parent to a developing adolescent, it has been a struggle to know how, and even if, I want to communicate with him about this important yet “turbulent” (192) time in his life. One strong takeaway I got out of this reading was on pg.199 where it states that studies indicate that when adolescents become seriously disturbed, chances of recovery are slim if not treated, it made me realize that, although the child is going through a phase of dramatic physical and cognitive growth, it is important to keep in mind the true sensitivity they are emotionally taking place in during this phase as well. When I do reach the moments when my son and I need to speak on sensitive subjects such as the ones in this chapter - or if I am talking to a student as a teacher – it is of utmost importance that I am cognizant of the understanding that what is happening internally is far more fragile than what I see happening externally. Because of this, I found the information on page 197, effective listening skills, extremely helpful as I prepare to venture into this stage of development with my son.

            One topic I was looking forward to reading was the section on sexual identity. In my opinion, as the social community continues to progress in its acceptance of the LGBTQ community, it is going to become increasingly more common to see people in their adolescent years accepting their knowledge of being homosexual. However, as society continuously tries to move forward in sexual equality, there will always be a hesitation of acceptance within the foreseeable future, including in the school environment. Going back to my statement about adolescents’ sensitivity, if I happen to find myself as a teacher in a junior high or high school environment, where emotions run strong and people are constantly struggling to find their identity, it is going to be extremely important for me to make sure that students who recognize themselves as homosexual feel safe and accepted in my classroom. I absolutely believe that knowledge of the existence homosexuals in the school is important and beneficial to the acceptance of gay and lesbian students among their peers. I am a strong advocate of sexual equality among all, and I want to create an environment where my students will understand that so that if there is a time where my students feel that they need someone to talk to, they know they are not alone. 

Comments

  1. Todd,

    I agree, it's great that the LGBTQ's acceptance in mainstream society is a great thing. Growing up in the Chicagoland area, and going to school with liberal arts background, I never really saw the trials and tribulations of LGBTQ until I started to read about their experiences and see it in the media. Hopefully we can help change the way they are treated, for the better, when we become teachers!

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  2. Todd,

    I’m glad that the information you found on page 197 was better able to help you encourage your son on his journey through adolescence. I think it’s also important to remember the information we read on adolescent egocentrism and consider it when you’re talking about turbulent times. Because this egocentrism is the “tendency to exaggerate the importance, uniqueness and severity of their social and emotional experiences”, situations you might think aren’t as serious maybe the end of your child’s world. I think it’s important to maybe consider this egocentrism in your conversation approach.

    Additionally, reading your sentiments on the LGBTQ community really touched me. Being openly gay in a catholic high school, I wish I had a faculty ally to confide in. You’re amazing and you’re making a difference in the lives of more adolescents struggling with their sense of sexual identity than you think. During this time of sexual identity it’s so crucial to be encouraged than put down or ignored because this will lead to self acceptance problems in the future. Thank you

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  3. Your perspective regarding your son's emerging adolescence was interesting. I have two sons and when our oldest was 11 (5th grade), he hit a rough patch as did my husband and I. Our son was already in behavioral therapy since 3rd grade because he was having a hard time adjusting to the new social norms. He was not the best at adapting to change and that created much anxiety within him. It was to the point he was having nightly meltdowns at 9 to 10pm which could last 1 to 2 hours. My husband and I were not fully equipped to handle his emotions and we needed some help. By reaching out for therapy, it gave our son, my husband and I a "took kit" to use during these turbulent times. 5th grade we had several deaths within in year time frame in our extended family and our son took this very hard where he questioned his faith, God, himself and our family. We had to get more help but this allowed us better lines of communication with our son. I have learned to read his cues on when he wants to open up but I notice sometimes he just wants to sit next to me on the couch and know I am there. We don't talk but just hang out and laugh at our dogs and cat. We connect without saying a word but when he does need to connect, he reaches out and communicates.

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